Birthday Break and China Puzzle #32.

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shēng rì kuài lè

zhù nǐ shēng rì kuài lè

zhù nǐ shēng rì kuài lè

zhù nǐ shēng rì kuài lè

zhù nǐ yǒngyuǎn kuài lè

Sheng ri kuai le!

Means Birthday greetings to you!

In China, the family is the heart of the nation, and children are the heart of the family. Having children is one of the Confucian moral duties. Of all who lack filial piety, the worst is he who has no children.

Before the child's birth there are no celebrations or showers, a practice which dates back to the days when many children died within a few days of birth. Even today a conservative Chinese woman will try to conceal her pregnancy for as long as possible, lest evil spirits discover an impending birth and kill the child. She will think good thoughts, avoid funerals, and may even sleep with knives under her bed. The unborn child may be given a false, "milk" name to confuse or scare away spirits that might mean it harm. To protect the newborn child, the umbilical cord may be wrapped in red paper and hidden somewhere in the household. The mother and child will also be sequestered for the first month of the child's life (zuoyuezi), during which time she is excused from all usual household duties. In conservative households, even the husband may stay away.To announce the baby's birth, a new father will give presents of red-dyed eggs to friends and family, an odd number for a boy, even for a girl; as well as money and wine to his wife's family. The ribbons tied on the wine jar also indicate the gender. Some fathers choose to send out boxes of fruit instead. If you receive such a gift, it is appropriate to send the family gifts of walnut meats, brown sugar, or special cakes made for the purpose; and any money may be honorably returned as a gift.

The first major birth celebration in a child's life is Moon-Yut, the month-old party. (This is sometimes called the "red egg and ginger" party.) There is a smaller celebration prior to the Moon-Yut, on the morning of the third day when the baby gets its first bath, but this is limited to close female friends and relatives. The tub is filled with water boiled with locust branches, and a string of cash tied with red silk is fastened around the tub. Each guest is expected to bring a small gift made of silver for the baby; and also places a piece of fruit or red egg into the bathwater.

But at the Moon-Yut, where the child is finally "locked" to this world with a gold or silver padlock and given their childhood name, all the stops are pulled out, and even the poorest families will invite all their relations to celebrate the child's survival - with one exception. Anyone who is very close to a different happy event (such as a wedding) or sad event (such as a funeral) ought not to attend. The happiness ought to be that of the family alone; and the sadness of others should not sully it. After the second birthday, the pattern reverses: if the  child's birthday happens to coincide with another auspicious event or even with a senior's birthday, it is the child's birthday which will be "overlooked", so as to keep harmony within the family.If you are invited to a Moon-Yut celebration, it is very appropriate to bring gifts of money, enclosed in red envelopes (hong bao) for good fortune. Although the amount of money should be in an even number - odd numbers being reserved for cash given during funerals - four of anything is to be avoided.

Some Chinese families also celebrate the hundredth day of a child's life. Friends and family are expected to bring chicken and fish for the celebration dinner, representing abundance and prosperity, but other gifts are nominal.

The last of the major post-birth celebrations is the first celebrated birthday, when the child turns two years old. It is also called the "second" birthday, with the pattern continuing into future birthdays: this ensures that the child will survive through the next year. A new year will be added with every new year celebration. This system of counting can sometimes be confusing. While the Gregorian calendar is slowly making inroads, traditional Chinese still count birthdays by the number of lunar New Year festivals the child has experienced. Many combine the two celebrations, so that the family birthdays are celebrated during the New Year festival. If the child happens to be born during the New Year festival, this first celebrated birthday will be observed the following year instead.

The first birthday is also celebrated with a feast; and the traditional gift from the parents to the child is a gold ring. It is also traditional for the child to foretell their future. Various items, such as a pen, book, or coin, are placed around the child or in a basket in front of them. The item the child touches first tells what profession he or she will have. Some feed the child a few long noodles to symbolize the solid foods the child is not yet capable of eating regularly, while others use yu char kuei, a long bread. Because the Queen Mother of the West is said to grow peaches of immortality in her garden, peach-shaped buns with a sweet paste of red bean or lotus at their hearts (sou tao, literally "longevity peach") make appropriate gifts, as well as charms, red-dyed eggs, toys and clothing decorated with the guardian tiger, and (of course!) the ubiquitous red envelopes of cash..

Thereafter, birthday gift-giving is not so tightly bound by tradition. While hong bao, red-dyed eggs, and (for older people) wine are always appropriate, more contemporary gifts find an occasional niche as well. Many birthday children are given a new set of clothing prior to the special day. Guests should avoid giving gifts such as shoes or intimate wear, however; or any of the many other gifts which are associated with misfortune either through a similarity of sound or by the manner of their use (such as a handkerchief). Never NEVER give a timekeeping device, such as a watch. The words relating to clocks and timekeeping sound very similar to those for seeking death. Many legends tell of those who died the day after having been given such a gift.

No childhood birthday passes without the traditional morning fare of red-dyed eggs, longevity peaches, and sweet "long life" rice noodles rolled or boiled in sugar. The noodles must never be cut short and every effort must be made to eat them without biting them short, since they represent hoped-for longevity. Many families also add different fruits, such as dates or melons. As the child grows older, the actual birthday are celebrated less and less, until, as an adult, the birthday celebration is usually relegated until the New Year. In fact, it becomes increasingly common for the children to celebrate the birthdays of their parents  and other elders, rather than the other way around. The exceptions are the birthdays which happen on the same animal year as the child's birth, every twelve years, when the pendulum of luck swings to its extremes.

Since 1979, when the one-child policy came into effect, the shape of birthdays has begun to change in China. Increasingly the Little Emperor of the family is overindulged, an entire generation of children growing up without hardship, without any conception of a need for moderation - and consequently rapidly changing the consumption habits of an entire country. In fact, a recent survey has found that modern Chinese families living in major urban areas frequently spend more of their disposable income on the child than on themselves. For many young urban Chinese, birthdays throughout life have become just another excuse to indulge themselves.

In a culture where longevity is desirable and the elderly are valuable, 

the 60th birthday is something special indeed. Not only has the astrological cycle of twelve animals come full circle but so has the astrological cycle of the five elements. Thus, uniquely, the sixtieth year of live is the only year of life where both the animal and element year are exactly the same as the year of birth: and so it marks the key transition between the life of raising children and the beginnings of true wisdom. This and subsequent birthday celebrations for elders, held every ten years, are traditionally given by their now-grown children, in honour of their parents. In general, the older the person, the more extravagant will be the celebration, limited only by the children's combined wealth.

生日快樂

祝你生日快樂
祝你生日快樂
祝你生日快樂
祝你永遠快樂

Birthdays are special occasions in just about every corner of the world. Traditional Chinese birthdays are celebrated a bit differently from birthdays celebrated in Western culture. Most Chinese adults do not celebrate their birthday until they turn 60 years old, and then celebrate every 10 years after that. Also, birthday gifts for Chinese infants, children and elders are often different from the birthday gifts given in the Western culture.

Gifts for an Infant's Birth Day

When a child is born in the traditional Chinese culture, it's already considered one year old. The first real birthday celebration for the infant occurs when he or she is a month old. This Moon-Yit celebration is when the infant is given its first bath. If you're among friends or family invited to this Moon-Yit celebration, it's appropriate to give money as a gift. Money signifies wealth and good fortune. When you give this gift of money, it's appropriate to place it in a red envelope or a red wrapping, as red also signifies good fortune and happiness. Further, you should give even amounts of money, as odd amounts are reserved for funerals.

Birthday Gifts for Children

It might seem a bit confusing, but when the child turns one year old, the Chinese celebrate his second birthday. This birthday includes a ritual in which the child is expected to foretell his own future. The child is placed on the floor surrounded by various symbolic objects that include things like Chinese coins, dolls, Buddha statues, books, pens and utensils. The first item the infant touches is thought to foretell his future. If he picks up a coin, it's thought that he will be blessed with wealth in his future. A doll would signify many children. A book would signify that he will become a very wise and educated person. Appropriate gifts for this birthday celebration again include cash in a red envelope or wrapping, but things such as charms for good luck, toys or clothing featuring tigers (thought to be guardians of safety in Chinese culture), and eggs (a symbol of a change in life and a harmonious life), which are also dyed red for more good fortune, are also common.

Gifts for the Elderly

In traditional China, the birthdays of the elderly are often thought to be more important than the birthdays of the young. This is counter to the Western culture point of view. A 60th birthday celebration is a particularly special celebration in Chinese culture, as it is a time when the astrological cycle of 12 animals and the five elements of wood, fire, earth, metal and water come together. Appropriate gifts for Chinese elders are usually items that signify longevity, including old miniature trees, wine, packages of long noodles and homemade peaches (which aren't really peaches, but steamed wheat shaped like peaches) and, of course, money in red envelopes. These gift items are given in groups of two or four, depending on the wealth of the giver.

So anyway, here's to one more year for yours truly.

Happy birthday to me.

Happy birthday to me.

Happy birthday Blondinko.

Happy birthday to me.

Yowsah!! Yowsah!!